Exactly 20 months after our first date and little more than a year after graduating together from San Jose State, Lori and I got married 42 years ago today.
September 6, 1975, was a typical late-summer day in San Jose, California. Hot and dry with a view of browned-out hills. We were 22 years old when we exchanged vows.
These photos, taken two years later, show just how beautiful my young bride was at that age — and how damn lucky I was (and am) to marry her.
I’ve done the math, so trust me when I say these 42 years mean we’ve now been together for 2,184 weeks and 15,330 days. Add in 11 leap years and you get a total of 15,341 days.
That translates to 368,184 hours and 22,091,040 minutes and 1,325,460,400 seconds (1.3 billion seconds).
Silly? Yes, of course.
The most important numbers? We have raised three wonderful children. And after all that time together, each of us is committed to one love, one partner, one marriage.
For what it’s worth, most Americans marry once and stick to it.
According to 2010 census statistics, more than half of the nation’s married couples have been together at least 15 years. About a third have marked their 25th anniversaries, and 6 percent have been married more than 50 years. (Source: The Washington Post)
Photographs: Brian McCay